I Need More Hearts…

Happy Fri-ya, y'all!
I need more HEARTS in my week!

As I updated my monthly whiteboard calendar, I started putting a pink heart by the things I was excitedly looking forward to with audible squeals of glee. Unfortunately, they were spaced out too far from each other as I noted the scheduled drudgery of everyday routine. But WHY should I wait another three days until I’m thrilled about something happening in my life?!

I literally exclaimed, “I need more HEARTS in my week! I can’t make it with just ONE per week!”

It was a stunning visual realization that I wasn’t replenishing myself with soul-nourishing activities after participating in the “gotta do” tasks that depleted me throughout the week. With this paradigm shift, I took action to add a HEART for that day…and it left me smiling! One intentional decision and I was in a better headspace; it felt AWESOME!

So I’m on a mission to add MORE HEARTS to each week. Some people refer to them as goals or milestones. (Humor this sparkly unicorn – I’mma call ‘em HEARTS!) #MoreHearts #Hearts EveryDay #Today #Now

To this effect, I’m planning a BIG #MoreHearts virtual event on Tuesday, April 1, 2025 @7pm ET – so save the date if you’re a Christian woman interested in joining me virtually for an event to add joy and gratitude to your life. I’d love to connect with you there!

Because maybe you need MORE HEARTS in your week, too…

“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.”

(Psalm 90:12)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Quarantined for a Reason

No is a complete sentence

I took note of my personal growth when I recently deleted a set of emails without opening or scanning the preview content first. <collective gasp!> Learning not to look at quarantined “spam” messages – this has to be a timesaver in and of itself, right? Baby steps (in the right direction) still lead us to progress…

If you think this isn’t a big deal, then you may not use a Yahoo email account from the early 2000s (or late 1990s if I’m honest) with over 56k unread messages…and counting. But IYKYK. 😆

(Do I think I’m super-cool because I actually know that IYKYK means “if you know, you know?” Absolutely, said the mother of college children.)

The lesson I took from this observation was: That message was quarantined from the regular inbox messages FOR A REASON. Lower value. Questionable content. Sus. Doesn’t need to consume my time or attention.

Ponder that for a moment. 

What distraction is taking you from the area that NEEDS your focus? (preaching to myself here)

We always hear about spring cleaning for our homes, but do we have any relationships, habits, time-wasters, or energy drainers that we need to purge? IJS. It made me think.

No, everyone doesn’t deserve to be deleted from your inbox. However, I’m reminded that errybody can’t be top tier! Let us take an honest inventory and choose how we invest our precious God-given energy with judicious prudence.

And don’t forget to DELETE stuff ya don’t need! We’re making space for greatness, y’all…let’s GO! #Purge #Refresh #Reset #Renew

Blessings, Kayren

“But know that the Lord hath set apart him that is godly for himself: the Lord will hear when I call unto him.”

(Psalm 4:3)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Keep On Building

Keep it moving!
Your partial work ain’t complete!

As I watched the progress on the new construction in my neighborhood, I couldn’t help but wonder, “What if the builders got complacent with the work they did on the foundation, or the fact that they got the walls framed up?”

On their own, these are significant milestones – worthy of celebration beyond a blank canvas. But if the work stops there, the house will never get to the point where a new family can live there, occupy it, and take up residency.

A timely reminder for us to keep building today on what God has placed in our hearts as a Kingdom assignment.

Blessings, Kayren

“11 And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.
12 The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light.”
(Romans 13:11-12)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Do You WANT to be Made Whole?

I had a supreme moment of clarity today and thought I’d share my “light bulb ah-ha moment.” Perhaps it was long-awaited because the answer was staring me in the face for a while, but I just didn’t recognize it.

It could’ve been sleep deprivation talking way too loudly, but I had to wonder if I’M the reason I continue to get dragged in this toxic corporate environment.

It was 2:30am (I didn’t go to bed until 5:30am – yeah, that’s a problem on sooo many levels…physical health, spiritual health, emotional health) and my husband asked me what I was doing to move the needle on my current role so I didn’t have to continue working these ridiculous hours just to keep up.

When I told him that I hadn’t yet incorporated the resume feedback a more seasoned colleague had given me last week (though my colleague gave me 2 weeks to circle back, a week flies by when you’re in survival mode), he looked at me incredulously. Basically, I concluded from his look that I was doing the equivalent of casually watering the flowers in the midst of an emergency that required my immediate attention. 

My takeaway? Timing and sequence are important. Significant. Critical.

So I need to make MYSELF a priority and get that resume updated. Because clearly, what I’m doing on this miserably predictable treadmill ain’t workin’. #RealTalk #Reframe

My previous blog post referenced the Biblical story of the man with the withered hand. This morning, I realized that if I continue to stay in my current position, my demise could mirror that of the man who was “stuck in his same situation” in John 5. The entire passage is worth reading.

Wilt thou be made whole?

A simple inquiry from Jesus to someone who clearly needed a change of environment, situation, circumstance. An extension of hope from the same Jesus who could make it happen once the man made a DECISION to become a willing participant in the process.

So I have a question for you…

Do YOU want to be made whole?

Good news: The same Jesus Who touched that man is still in the healing business – and He is available and accessible to YOU and me!

“3 In these lay a great multitude of impotent folk, of blind, halt, withered, waiting for the moving of the water.

4 For an angel went down at a certain season into the pool, and troubled the water: whosoever then first after the troubling of the water stepped in was made whole of whatsoever disease he had.

5 And a certain man was there, which had an infirmity thirty and eight years.

6 When Jesus saw him lie, and knew that he had been now a long time in that case, he saith unto him, Wilt thou be made whole?

7 The impotent man answered him, Sir, I have no man, when the water is troubled, to put me into the pool: but while I am coming, another steppeth down before me.

8 Jesus saith unto him, Rise, take up thy bed, and walk.

9 And immediately the man was made whole, and took up his bed, and walked: and on the same day was the sabbath.”

(John 5:3-9)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Obedience = Following God’s Instructions

This weekend, the Bible word search puzzle I was working on came from Luke 6:8-10. I was aware that Jesus worked many miracles, but as I read the passage a second time, I could relate to the man with the withered hand. Why? Because I know what it’s like to have “issues” that are very noticeable when in Jesus’ presence. Jesus called the man out – but it wasn’t to shame him…it was for the purpose of healing him.

Yet, there was a sequence of steps (instructions) the man had to take in order to receive that gift of healing from the Master.

Rise Up

“Seriously, Lord?” We have to get out of our comfort zone (which may be more familiar than comfortable).

Stand Forth in the Midst

“You mean I’ve gotta stand in the middle of all these people?” This could have been overwhelming to the man. But he obeyed.

Stretch Forth Thy Hand

“You mean there’s something ELSE I’ve gotta do?” Yep. For the next step, we’re required to reach out in faith. Faith supercedes and transcends our intellect and natural wisdom.

The Heart of the Matter

Here’s the truth: I’m working on my obedience. I realize that sometimes my obedience is delayed or not existent…and this equals DISOBEDIENCE. <ouch!> God’s series of sequential steps become a set of instructions – and it’s not a mere suggestion.

When we follow the instructions He’s tailored specifically for us, we’re agreeing with God’s will, and He’s positioning (or repositioning) us. In this passage, instructions are part of the preparation for the man with the withered hand to be healed as GOD is glorified.

Can you identify some instructions you’ve been given that will lead to healing in your life? I certainly can! Let us be swift to obey our loving God Who stands ready to heal us from every infirmity and restore us whole…after all, aren’t you tired of living with that withered situation?

Blessings,
Kayren

“8 But he knew their thoughts, and said to the man which had the withered hand,
Rise up, and stand forth in the midst. And he arose and stood forth.
9 Then said Jesus unto them, I will ask you one thing; Is it lawful on the sabbath days to do good, or to do evil? to save life, or to destroy it?
10 And looking round about upon them all, he said unto the man, Stretch forth thy hand. And he did so: and his hand was restored whole as the other.
(Luke 6:8-10)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

I’m Speaking at This Powerful Faith Summit!

I believe clarity in faith is more important than ever. That’s why I’m honored to be speaking at the Tearing Down the Veil Summit, a 3-day event focused on unlearning deception, breaking free from false teachings, and walking fully in Biblical truth.

In my session, “Not My Will Lord…or is it?” I’ll be sharing insights that will help believers discern truth, build confidence, and strengthen their faith in today’s world.

📅 Join me at this powerful event! February 18-20, 2025
🎟 FREE Registration: https://kayrencathcart–smcneil.thrivecart.com/unschooling-summit-2025/ 

Let’s break free from confusion and step into God’s truth. Who’s joining me?

#unschoolingsummit #Godstruthoverthelies #defeattheenemy #speakthetruth #whodoyoubelieve #TearingDowntheVeil

Last Chance to Join the Fear and Doubt Detox Summit

The wait is over. It’s your time!

Today is your last chance to register for the Fear and Doubt Detox Audio Summit! Don’t miss this opportunity to break free from limiting beliefs and embrace a life of courage, confidence, and trust.

Our expert speakers will share their personal journeys of overcoming fear and doubt, providing you with valuable insights and practical tips. You’ll learn how to:

  • Identify and challenge limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
  • Embrace your God-given purpose and live a life of fulfillment.
  • Cultivate a fearless faith that empowers you to overcome challenges.
  • Build resilience and self-confidence to navigate life’s uncertainties.
  • Find peace and tranquility in the midst of life’s storms.

In addition to our expert speakers, you’ll also have the opportunity to:

  • Connect with like-minded women who are seeking to overcome fear and doubt.
  • Join supportive community groups to encourage and uplift each other.
  • Access valuable resources to help you continue your journey of personal growth.

The Fear & Doubt Detox Audio Summit is a unique opportunity to invest in yourself and your spiritual well-being. By attending this event, you’ll gain the tools and inspiration you need to break free from fear and doubt and live a more fulfilling life.

Don’t miss out! Register now before it’s too late.

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We look forward to welcoming you to this life-changing event!

Blessings,
Kayren

Calling all victorious overcomers

Yep, I’m talkin’ to YOU! Ready to conquer your fears and reach new heights? Join us for the Fear and Doubt Detox Audio Summit. #fearanddoubtdetox #courage #motivation

Haven’t registered yet? Don’t miss out! Grab your seat now and tune in to my Day 2 talk:
 “And I Hid Myself: Genesis 3:10 #UNwrapped

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Here’s a gift with a purpose: Today, I Pray…

Today, I Pray...Simple Prompts to Put Away Procrastinated Prayer

These are definitely praying times, wouldn’t you agree?

Sooo much is going on in the world these days – particularly on college campuses – that it can weigh down the heart. Within the past several days, I’ve reached out to my own children just to make sure they were safe in the midst of turbulence occurring near or at their respective schools.

The reason I asked if you’ve put off prayer lately is because it’s a challenge I find myself coming back to – time and again. #TransparentTruth

Sometimes it’s hard to get started with prayer. Or shut out the distractions. Or carve out a moment away from the hustle, bustle, and grind of everyday life.

“Procrastinated prayer” doesn’t sound holy at all, but let’s be honest.

Real talk? I have put off prayer…on more occasions (and more recently) than I care to admit.

No judgment here ‘cuz I fully believe that people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones! #JudgmentFreeZone

How do we get outta the rut of carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders (which we’re not built for, by the way)? How do we get over the hump of praying one day, skipping a couple of days, then showing up in God’s presence after we’ve gotten even more weary and worn down? Help is here.

My friend, if you’ve ever felt like you needed a conversation starter with your Creator, be encouraged. I’m offering you a tool I created and curated to help us get back on track.

Today, I Pray…Simple Prompts to Put Away Procrastinated Prayer

I hope you’ll check it out – and use it…starting TODAY. #TodayIPray

It’s that important.

We all need accountability as we grow and mature. And sometimes we need a gentle nudge in the right direction…here’s your nudge…

Click here for your complimentary copy of Today, I Pray…
(it’s a flipbook, which I think is pretty cool)

I hope you’ll hit REPLY and lemme know how Today, I Pray… helped you.

p.s. If you wanna grab a PDF version you can download or print, please ​visit my online bookstore​.

Abundant blessings during these praying times,

Kayren

“If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray,

and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven,

and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”

(II Chronicles 7:14)

© Copyright 2023 by Kayren J. Cathcart

10 Tips to Shift Your Mindset

10 Ways to Shift Your Mindset According to the Experts

We all want happiness, success, and fulfillment. So, what’s standing in the way? It’s often a matter of mindset.  

Your mindset is how you approach the issues and challenges you face. How you think about these matters affects everything you do, so it’s essential to remain positive.

With the right mindset, you can rise to any challenge. Here are tips from the experts on shifting your mindset for success.

1. Change the Wording

One way to adopt a better mindset is to reframe the wording of what you think and believe.

We all have negative beliefs that hold us back. Sometimes, they manifest themselves as negative self-talk. For example, you might say, “I’m not good enough,” or “I can’t do this.”

You can adopt a more positive mindset by reframing them:

I’m not good enough. -> I’m getting better each day.

I can’t do this -> I’m learning how to do this.

Even something like, “I hate my job,” can be reframed to, “I’m doing what I need to do now and transitioning to something better.”

The first step to reframing is to identify your negative thought patterns. Then, pay attention to the voice inside your head and what it tells you.

Other ways to discover your negative thoughts are to journal, practice mindfulness, or seek feedback from people who know you well.

2. Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

You can create an even more lasting effect by challenging your negative thought patterns and demonstrating they’re untrue.

For example, you can collect evidence that proves otherwise if you feel you’re an imposter and not good at what you do. When these negative thoughts appear, you can counteract them with this evidence. Look at results you’ve gotten before, or seek positive feedback from others.

It can also help to look at the lives of successful people. If you feel like you’re not successful, it might help to realize that no top performer was born that way. Everyone needed to improve like you’re doing now.

3. Improve Your Content Mix

You can significantly change your mindset by consuming more empowering content. Find videos, podcasts, and blogs that make you feel inspired. Use content that fires you up and gets you ready to take action.

Podcasts are a great way to feel more empowered because you can listen to them while you work, commute, or do things around the house. It’s like a voice in your ear inspiring you as you go about your day.

4. Create a Positive Morning Routine

What do you do when you first wake up in the morning? How do you spend the first few hours of the day?

The way you spend the morning sets the tone for the whole day. So creating a morning routine that makes you feel positive and energized is an excellent idea. Then, you’ll approach everything you do with more positivity.

Start by deciding what you’ll do when you first wake up. Next, choose activities that will help you feel positive, such as light exercise, meditation, a healthy breakfast, reading time, or enjoying content that inspires you.

Full disclosure: I’m still working on this one! LOL

5. Set Goals

Setting goals helps you shift your mindset by focusing on positive future outcomes. When you make goals, you create this future for yourself, choosing what you want and don’t want.

You know what you’re working toward when you have clear and specific goals. Staying motivated is more manageable when you have a bad day or experience a setback. You’ll realize that one setback doesn’t erase all your progress.

6. Visualize the Future You Want

Along with setting goals, visualization helps you focus on the future you want, which brings positivity into your life today.

Choose a time in the future and imagine your life and business in as much detail as possible. Use all your senses to visualize what it would be like. You can practice this visualization daily or whenever you need some positivity. This is a great element to add to your morning routine.

7. Express Daily Gratitude

Daily gratitude is extremely powerful in creating a positive mindset and sense of abundance. It makes you appreciate all the good you have in your life.

The best way to do this is through a gratitude journal. Sit down every day and write down 3 things you’re grateful for. In addition to positivity, your gratitude journal will make you more resilient, reduce stress, and improve your mental health.

It really works…I’m a witness!

8. Embrace a Growth Mindset

Growth mindset is a perspective that sees human beings as capable of change and growth. It differs from a fixed mindset, which says people can’t fundamentally change. Developing a growth mindset will give you a more positive way of thinking.

There are many ways to do this, but the most impactful is to reorder the way you see challenges and learning. For example, people with a growth mindset see every experience as a chance for growth. This is particularly the case with challenges, failures, and hard times. Instead, it would help if you understood that whether you succeed or fail, you’ll come through your trials knowing more than before.

9. Keep a Journal

Keeping a journal is a great way to become more positive. Reflecting on your thoughts and feelings makes you more self-aware, so you can quickly identify negative thoughts or self-talk. Then you can develop strategies to change them.

Journaling helps your mindset by allowing you to work through problems and brainstorm solutions in writing. You can then develop action plans to make the changes you need. It also provides a way to “talk” and vent your anger or frustrations.

TOTAL YES on this one!!!

10. Creating Positive Success Habits

Creating positive success habits is the best way to shift to a positive mindset. Choose a few from the above or others you may find and create a routine where these strategies become ingrained in your everyday life. With increased positivity, you’ll find it easier to get things done and keep negativity and stress at bay.

You’ve GOT THIS, my friend! Let’s walk this journey together…

Want to learn more about how you can transform your mindset into one of positivity? Head over here (remember #3!):

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© Copyright 2023 by Kayren J. Cathcart

“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:”

(Philippians 2:5)