The Leadership Lesson

In process and in progress
Learning when your tests & trials aren’t just for you…

The tempering. Pulverization. Incessant pressure. Repetitive knocks. All leading to and culminating in ultimate restoration.

I hadn’t thought about the challenges of my current season as being part of leadership training. Until now.

But it all makes sense.

The greatest among us must serve. 

And a true servant leader has a tender heart after experiencing what they walk others through – because they’re already familiar with the path.

They know the sting of rejection. The frustration of being misunderstood. The loneliness of isolation. The two-sided coin of forgiveness and redemption.

And they don’t despise any part of the lesson, because they understand that it’s all part of the process of being made.

May we continue to endure each lesson until we become leaders who accurately reflect the image of our primary example of selfless servant leadership – Jesus Christ.

In progress & in process, Kayren

“24 And there was also a strife among them, which of them should be accounted the greatest.

25 And he said unto them, The kings of the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and they that exercise authority upon them are called benefactors.

26 But ye shall not be so: but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve.

27 For whether is greater, he that sitteth at meat, or he that serveth? is not he that sitteth at meat? but I am among you as he that serveth.”

(Luke 22:24-27)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

The Hambone Speaks

Honestly, I can’t say that I was looking for a “sign from on high” as I carved up our Christmas ham for various sandwiches, breakfast casseroles, pasta salads, and whatever else ham is destined to become over a holiday weekend. Yet, I heard that hambone speak today and had to capture the sentiment. It didn’t literally speak out loud (‘cuz that would be totally weird, right?!). However, I was struck by the way the bone popped out when I cut it to make it fit into the crock pot. I was adding it to season and flavor the six-pound industrial-sized can of green beans I’d procured for Thanksgiving (but SOMEbody else wanted collard greens instead, so the green beans took a back seat until the next holiday…and here we are!). I digress…let’s get back to the hambone.

While sawing with that big ol’ serrated knife, I finally hit the bone. I knew the knife’s limitations and that it wouldn’t go through the bone, so I looked for the joint. I found it and wiggled against the knife until I heard a “pop!” When I saw the juicy marrow inside, Hebrews 4:12 popped into my head. I was like, “Wow Lord, I didn’t expect an object lesson from the kitchen today, but thank You!”

The Amplified Bible says it this way:

“For the word of God is living and active and full of power [making it operative, energizing, and effective]. It is sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating as far as the division of the soul and spirit [the completeness of a person], and of both joints and marrow [the deepest parts of our nature], exposing and judging the very thoughts and intentions of the heart.”

As we ruminate over 2022, we can see that we’ve done some significant work. God invites us to labor to enter into His rest. As we do so, we can expect His Word – like a two-edged sword – to “penetrate as far as the division…of both the joints and marrow.” This indicates that there’s more work to be done in each of His children. Will you yield and allow Him to bring forth His plans through you in 2023?

This scripture passage challenges me to “cease from my own works” (just like Proverbs 3:5-6 constantly reminds me to “lean not to my own understanding). I have been in “reflect-and-repent” mode as I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for the MANY things God has brought me through this year. As that knife cut and divided the ham and the bone and the marrow, I was reminded that God’s Word is powerfully working to sever some things that don’t need to go into the new year with me.

My prayer is that we will allow His Word to perform its penetrating work in us starting now and continuing into the new year…all for HIS glory.

P.S. I know I need to add more veggies to my menus in 2023…it’s already on my list! LOL

Abundant blessings for a Merry CHRISTmas and a prosperous Happy New Year, Kayren 🙂

“9 There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.

10 For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his.

11 Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest, lest any man fall after the same example of unbelief.

12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”

(Hebrews 4:9-12)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

I Am Zucchini: A Tale of Flourishing

Hey friends! It’s been a full and active summer over my way, but I’ve got a FRESH new podcast episode for your listening pleasure…https://anchor.fm/kayren-cathcart/episodes/I-Am-Zucchini-A-Tale-of-Flourishing-e1m1fib

I’m sharing inspiration from my home garden on flourishing in harvest time. This uplifting 6-minute speech was given during a recent Toastmasters meeting…I hope it puts a smile on your face! Stay encouraged, Kayren 🙂

“Those that be planted in the house of the Lord shall flourish in the courts of our God.”

(Psalm 92:13)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

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NEW Episode: The Convo Lab welcomes Kim Angeli

Kim Angeli, CEO & Founder of GratefulBox.com, shares unique ways to inspire grateful living on this NEW episode of The Convo Lab. Check out this amazing interview on YouTube or LinkedIn and prepare to learn some wisdom that will positively impact you – both personally and professionally!

BONUS: Kim has graciously offered a free gift to viewers of The Convo Lab – a “Choose Grateful” key tag! Request yours here: https://gratefulbox.com/choosegratefulkeytag

“O give thanks unto the Lord; call upon his name: make known his deeds among the people.”

(Psalm 105:1)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

p.s. Drop me a comment after you watch; I wanna to hear from you…& please Like, Share, Comment, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel for notifications of new episodes of The Convo Lab!

Thanks so much,

Kayren

Happy New YOU in 2022!🥳

Praying all the best for you and yours as we celebrate a new year full of promise and possibility!

Abundant blessings,

Kayren

And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful.

And he said unto me, It is done. I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life freely.”

(Revelation 21:5-6)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

My Christmas Gift to YOU🎁🌲

12-26 Christmas giveaway 2021

I am SOOOO thankful for those who visit and read my blog!🤗 It truly blesses my heart to add inspiration and encouragement to your life. For this reason, as I celebrate the priceless gift of the birth of Christ😇🕊 (grateful it’s not confined to Dec. 25!), I have a Christmas gift FOR YOU! 🎁🌲 To access it:

  1. Please check out my newly designed website at www.KayrenCathcart.com (your comments are welcome!), and then
  2. Sign up to Subscribe (enter your name and email address under my photo in the green shirt) where it says “Let’s Connect!”

In the new year, I’ll be sharing about the awesome goodies I have planned via my email list, and I don’t want my blog readers (that’s YOU!) to miss a thing!

FYI: Unfortunately, my social media accounts got hacked earlier this month, and I disabled them.😳😖😬😱 I’m still learning to navigate the plethora of technology available so we can stay connected.🙏🏼👍🏼

Abundant blessings,

Kayren💓

6 For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.

7 Of the increase of his government and peace there shall be no end, upon the throne of David, and upon his kingdom, to order it, and to establish it with judgment and with justice from henceforth even for ever. The zeal of the Lord of hosts will perform this.

(Isaiah 9:6-7)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Take a Break!🕊

OK to take a break 11-26-2021

There’s no need for us to get caught up in the hoopla of the world system. Sabbath is restorative…let’s practice for proficiency.🙌🏽 May rest and restoration be yours today, my friend!🕊 #Selah

Blessings,

Kayren

8 Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.

9 Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:

10 But the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates:

11 For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.

(Exodus 20:8)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart

A Message in the Clouds

Clouds aren’t bad…many of them have silver lining!😇 #PerspectiveMaintenance

In many ways, a cloudy day can be just as beautiful as a sunny day…allow God to adjust your focus today. You may be pleasantly surprised at what you SEE…

“Thy mercy, O Lord, is in the heavens; and thy faithfulness reacheth unto the clouds.”

(Psalm 36:5)

“For thy mercy is great unto the heavens, and thy truth unto the clouds.

Be thou exalted, O God, above the heavens: let thy glory be above all the earth.”

(Psalm 57:10-11)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Carolina Moon

Shoutin’ out my fellow recovering perfectionists with this friendly reminder: Sometimes it’s the simple things in life that make all the difference.

Can anyone relate? Drop me a comment if you’re taking intentional steps to simplify your life these days! #LiveWithIntention

Sharing photos from yesterday’s walk – I had no agenda except to appreciate and enjoy God’s creation while moving my body.🙌🏽😇 I’m consciously countering “overachiever” tendencies and experiencing so much peace… #LetItGo 🕊

“The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.”

(Psalm 119:130)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Nature’s Music🎵

Crunch, crunch, crunch – that’s the sound of the leaves I stepped on while walking without music from my playlist today.🎵 It was absolutely delightful!

What seemingly small sounds are speaking to you today? Pay attention…they may hold an unexpected hidden treasure! Blessings, Kayren 😊

P.S. Sharing photos from my weekend walk with my mom – I didn’t realize all the beauty (and duck activity! LOL🦆) of the neighborhood creek when I lived there…funny how time can change your perspective, eh?😏🎁

“Praise him for his mighty acts: praise him according to his excellent greatness.”

(Psalm 150:2)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart