Driving Through Rainbows

Rainy days can be kinda dreary.

On a recent gray and rainy day, I found myself marvelling at magnificent puffy clouds.

Then the sun came out. I spotted the rainbow. 

But I gasped with sheer delight when I noticed the DOUBLE rainbow.

Here’s to seeing the beauty embedded in every storm…

Because we don’t get rainbows without rain. Selah. 🌈

Blessings, Kayren

“He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.”

(Ecclesiastes 3:11, KJV)

“He has made everything beautiful and appropriate in its time. He has also planted eternity [a sense of divine purpose] in the human heart [a mysterious longing which nothing under the sun can satisfy, except God]—yet man cannot find out (comprehend, grasp) what God has done (His overall plan) from the beginning to the end.”

(Ecclesiastes 3:11, AMP)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Create Time For Joy

I had a delightful lunch with my mini-me before she headed off to her summer internship. Unbeknownst to me, she was quick on the draw and captured my “exclamation face” when the waiter informed me they might not have the tiramisu. ExSQUEEZE me?!

Yes, THAT tiramisu

But they did. And all was well with the world! 

My baby chose the same meal that I’d ordered the week before (egg drop soup, spring rolls, and red curry…I guess my recommendation was pretty persuasive), and we enjoyed wonderful fellowship accentuated by tasty treats – of course topped off with terrific tiramisu.

We pressed “pause” on all the other stuff going on and made time for what mattered most in that moment – mother/daughter time. I am grateful!

How will you make time for joy today? Drop a comment if you’d like to share…

Blessings, Kayren

“9 Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.

10 Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;”

(Romans 12:9-10, KJV)

“9 Love is to be sincere and active [the real thing—without guile and hypocrisy]. Hate what is evil [detest all ungodliness, do not tolerate wickedness]; hold on tightly to what is good. 

10 Be devoted to one another with [authentic] brotherly affection [as members of one family], give preference to one another in honor;”

(Romans 12:9-10, AMP)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Rejoicing In His Presence

chosen by God dots

Today, I choose to experience the day from His perspective – as a gift to be unwrapped.

Instead of analyzing the “box of the unknown,” I receive and accept the truth that my Heavenly Father gives GOOD gifts to His children. 

There is no place or room for fear, worry, dread, or anxiety because I am His daughter, He loves me, and He has great things in store for me.

What’s your declaration today?

If you’re not sure, start by reading the scripture below out loud for a spiritual identity boost!

Blessings, Kayren

“3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,

4 To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

5 Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

6 Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations:

7 That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:

8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:

9 Receiving the end of your faith, even the salvation of your souls.”

(I Peter 1:3-9, KJV)

“3 Blessed [gratefully praised and adored] be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His abundant and boundless mercy has caused us to be born again [that is, to be reborn from above—spiritually transformed, renewed, and set apart for His purpose] to an ever-living hope and confident assurance through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 

4 [born anew] into an inheritance which is imperishable [beyond the reach of change] and undefiled and unfading, reserved in heaven for you, 

5 who are being protected and shielded by the power of God through your faith for salvation that is ready to be revealed [for you] in the last time. 

6 In this you rejoice greatly, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, 

7 so that the genuineness of your faith, which is much more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested and purified by fire, may be found to result in [your] praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 

8 Though you have not seen Him, you love Him; and though you do not even see Him now, you believe and trust in Him and you greatly rejoice and delight with inexpressible and glorious joy, 

9 receiving as the result [the outcome, the consummation] of your faith, the salvation of your souls.”

(I Peter 1:3-9, Amplified)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

I Am a Person – NOT a Machine

quit clownin'

Ever feel like people around you need that reminder?

I cannot run 24/7. Continuous grinding is NOT abundant life.

That means I have to adjust deadlines. Respond once my emotions have been acknowledged and addressed. Realize that nothing is set in stone – even when others’ expectations point to the contrary.

I’ve learned to be okay when stuff doesn’t go as planned. I consider myself to be a pretty decent planner (kinda meticulous, very detail-oriented). Execution – I need support in that area. Maybe it’s cuz I get easily distracted.

Anyhoo…when things look like they’re taking a turn from the “script,” I’ve learned how to pivot with grace (and I’m still practicing HARD every day…and life seems to be throwing multiple opportunities to broaden and deepen this skill, so um, thank you, Lord – I guess?).

If you’ve been serving the thief more than the Good Shepherd, how will you give yourself grace in the midst of an automated environment today? You know it’s time…

Blessings, Kayren

“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”

(John 10:10)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

My Dubious Relationship with Time

time management problem

Am I sus? Yeah…

It’s not that I overestimate my abilities (as much as I used to…because age has a way of bringing reality into clearer focus😆😝😜), but I underestimate the amount of time things take.

Like travel or commute time…I often forget to figure in traffic or unexpected delays or detours.

Or work projects – gotta expect the unexpected, right? (But how to track that on a Gantt chart or dashboard?)🤔

Maybe it’s estimates vs. actuals that trips me up…because everything can’t be eyeballed. Some things require precision.

So imma keep working on that…

Got any helpful time tips? I welcome ‘em…drop a comment. 

Blessings, Kayren

“15 See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,

16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.

17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.”

(Ephesians 5:15-17)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Razor-Thin Margin

It's okay to take a break and rest

Running on fumes? Quit it…

Why do we do this to ourselves?

Time to replenish mind, body, and soul isn’t just a “nice to have.” 

It is a necessity. A vital requirement.

Let’s make the adjustment.

Just sharing in love as I’m learning to do different and do better…

Blessings, Kayren 

“Thus saith the LORD, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein.”

(Jeremiah 6:16)

“The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing.”

(Zephaniah 3:17)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

The Leadership Lesson

In process and in progress
Learning when your tests & trials aren’t just for you…

The tempering. Pulverization. Incessant pressure. Repetitive knocks. All leading to and culminating in ultimate restoration.

I hadn’t thought about the challenges of my current season as being part of leadership training. Until now.

But it all makes sense.

The greatest among us must serve. 

And a true servant leader has a tender heart after experiencing what they walk others through – because they’re already familiar with the path.

They know the sting of rejection. The frustration of being misunderstood. The loneliness of isolation. The two-sided coin of forgiveness and redemption.

And they don’t despise any part of the lesson, because they understand that it’s all part of the process of being made.

May we continue to endure each lesson until we become leaders who accurately reflect the image of our primary example of selfless servant leadership – Jesus Christ.

In progress & in process, Kayren

“24 And there was also a strife among them, which of them should be accounted the greatest.

25 And he said unto them, The kings of the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and they that exercise authority upon them are called benefactors.

26 But ye shall not be so: but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve.

27 For whether is greater, he that sitteth at meat, or he that serveth? is not he that sitteth at meat? but I am among you as he that serveth.”

(Luke 22:24-27)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Nice, Neat Boxes

Manage your time

Reality check straight ahead…

Life gets a LOT simpler when we stop trying to define, label, and categorize ourselves and our situations. 

Because things are always shifting. So even when we think we’ve figured out one part, another facet shifts.

Therefore, it behooves us to accept some things as they are instead of angsting over what we wish they were. 

Most of the time, what we imagine isn’t even part of the true essence – so it’s a ridiculously unrealistic expectation (and hence, a waste of time, energy, and other resources) to even bother considering.

Let’s not waste time on fleeting vanity…

Blessings, Kayren 

“8 Vanity of vanities, saith the preacher; all is vanity.

13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

14 For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.”

(Ecclesiastes 12:8, 13-14)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

I Have THIS Moment

No time like the present - appreciate the gift

We can’t gather and collect time.

But we can appreciate and enjoy it for what it is: the gift of this moment. 🎁

A present IN the present, if you will.

Selah…

Blessings, Kayren

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:”
(Ecclesiastes 3:1)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

10 Tips to Shift Your Mindset

10 Ways to Shift Your Mindset According to the Experts

We all want happiness, success, and fulfillment. So, what’s standing in the way? It’s often a matter of mindset.  

Your mindset is how you approach the issues and challenges you face. How you think about these matters affects everything you do, so it’s essential to remain positive.

With the right mindset, you can rise to any challenge. Here are tips from the experts on shifting your mindset for success.

1. Change the Wording

One way to adopt a better mindset is to reframe the wording of what you think and believe.

We all have negative beliefs that hold us back. Sometimes, they manifest themselves as negative self-talk. For example, you might say, “I’m not good enough,” or “I can’t do this.”

You can adopt a more positive mindset by reframing them:

I’m not good enough. -> I’m getting better each day.

I can’t do this -> I’m learning how to do this.

Even something like, “I hate my job,” can be reframed to, “I’m doing what I need to do now and transitioning to something better.”

The first step to reframing is to identify your negative thought patterns. Then, pay attention to the voice inside your head and what it tells you.

Other ways to discover your negative thoughts are to journal, practice mindfulness, or seek feedback from people who know you well.

2. Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

You can create an even more lasting effect by challenging your negative thought patterns and demonstrating they’re untrue.

For example, you can collect evidence that proves otherwise if you feel you’re an imposter and not good at what you do. When these negative thoughts appear, you can counteract them with this evidence. Look at results you’ve gotten before, or seek positive feedback from others.

It can also help to look at the lives of successful people. If you feel like you’re not successful, it might help to realize that no top performer was born that way. Everyone needed to improve like you’re doing now.

3. Improve Your Content Mix

You can significantly change your mindset by consuming more empowering content. Find videos, podcasts, and blogs that make you feel inspired. Use content that fires you up and gets you ready to take action.

Podcasts are a great way to feel more empowered because you can listen to them while you work, commute, or do things around the house. It’s like a voice in your ear inspiring you as you go about your day.

4. Create a Positive Morning Routine

What do you do when you first wake up in the morning? How do you spend the first few hours of the day?

The way you spend the morning sets the tone for the whole day. So creating a morning routine that makes you feel positive and energized is an excellent idea. Then, you’ll approach everything you do with more positivity.

Start by deciding what you’ll do when you first wake up. Next, choose activities that will help you feel positive, such as light exercise, meditation, a healthy breakfast, reading time, or enjoying content that inspires you.

Full disclosure: I’m still working on this one! LOL

5. Set Goals

Setting goals helps you shift your mindset by focusing on positive future outcomes. When you make goals, you create this future for yourself, choosing what you want and don’t want.

You know what you’re working toward when you have clear and specific goals. Staying motivated is more manageable when you have a bad day or experience a setback. You’ll realize that one setback doesn’t erase all your progress.

6. Visualize the Future You Want

Along with setting goals, visualization helps you focus on the future you want, which brings positivity into your life today.

Choose a time in the future and imagine your life and business in as much detail as possible. Use all your senses to visualize what it would be like. You can practice this visualization daily or whenever you need some positivity. This is a great element to add to your morning routine.

7. Express Daily Gratitude

Daily gratitude is extremely powerful in creating a positive mindset and sense of abundance. It makes you appreciate all the good you have in your life.

The best way to do this is through a gratitude journal. Sit down every day and write down 3 things you’re grateful for. In addition to positivity, your gratitude journal will make you more resilient, reduce stress, and improve your mental health.

It really works…I’m a witness!

8. Embrace a Growth Mindset

Growth mindset is a perspective that sees human beings as capable of change and growth. It differs from a fixed mindset, which says people can’t fundamentally change. Developing a growth mindset will give you a more positive way of thinking.

There are many ways to do this, but the most impactful is to reorder the way you see challenges and learning. For example, people with a growth mindset see every experience as a chance for growth. This is particularly the case with challenges, failures, and hard times. Instead, it would help if you understood that whether you succeed or fail, you’ll come through your trials knowing more than before.

9. Keep a Journal

Keeping a journal is a great way to become more positive. Reflecting on your thoughts and feelings makes you more self-aware, so you can quickly identify negative thoughts or self-talk. Then you can develop strategies to change them.

Journaling helps your mindset by allowing you to work through problems and brainstorm solutions in writing. You can then develop action plans to make the changes you need. It also provides a way to “talk” and vent your anger or frustrations.

TOTAL YES on this one!!!

10. Creating Positive Success Habits

Creating positive success habits is the best way to shift to a positive mindset. Choose a few from the above or others you may find and create a routine where these strategies become ingrained in your everyday life. With increased positivity, you’ll find it easier to get things done and keep negativity and stress at bay.

You’ve GOT THIS, my friend! Let’s walk this journey together…

Want to learn more about how you can transform your mindset into one of positivity? Head over here (remember #3!):

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© Copyright 2023 by Kayren J. Cathcart

“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:”

(Philippians 2:5)