Need a Change of Scenery?

It doesn’t always require a vacation…Small adjustments can yield big results…

After mindlessly carb-grazing past the clear cake dome of devil’s food cake and plastic container of croissants, I realized that I needed to tamp down my visual triggers…and quick! 🥐

Cuz if I see it, I’m usually nibbling within 10 seconds. 👀 Call it an endearing foible…or a weakness – your choice.🙄

So I moved the cake from the easily accessible corner of the counter. It may seem insignificant, but it was like a landmine when I’d go refill my water, like, “Yes, cake IS perfectly acceptable this close after breakfast…and again this close before bedtime.” 🫣😆

Um no.🚫 I rebuked myself, made the adjustment (2 croissants and 4 buttery fingers later), and went to brush my teeth.

Drop a comment and share how you’ll change your scenery today. 

It’s definitely a judgment-free zone – because people who live in glass houses can’t afford to throw stones…and people with crumbs around their lips shouldn’t be quick to criticize! 😉😏😜😂

Blessings, Kayren

“The wise in heart shall be called prudent: and the sweetness of the lips increaseth learning.”

(Proverbs 16:21)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Fun Size or Farce?

Truth is one size fits all
quit foolin’ yourself…is it a “sweet treat” or packaged death in disguise?

Fun Fact: Eating 8 “fun size” pieces of candy in one day WILL NOT equate to ME being a fun size. 😬

Marketing can be really sneaky. And downright misleading.

Alas…I even walked after work.

Then I was super-tired during a late-night work session, and my resistance was low. It was a crime of opportunity and I kept going back to the pantry.

And just because somebody else can do it and it looks like they’re “getting away with it,” don’t be deceived. 

At least that’s the admonition I’m giving myself.

I know the truth about the wages of sin…so why would I willfully PAY for those results?

Why indeed…

“21 What fruit had ye then in those things whereof ye are now ashamed? for the end of those things is death.

22 But now being made free from sin, and become servants to God, ye have your fruit unto holiness, and the end everlasting life.

23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

(Romans 6:21-23)

© Copyright 2025 by Kayren J. Cathcart

10 Tips to Shift Your Mindset

10 Ways to Shift Your Mindset According to the Experts

We all want happiness, success, and fulfillment. So, what’s standing in the way? It’s often a matter of mindset.  

Your mindset is how you approach the issues and challenges you face. How you think about these matters affects everything you do, so it’s essential to remain positive.

With the right mindset, you can rise to any challenge. Here are tips from the experts on shifting your mindset for success.

1. Change the Wording

One way to adopt a better mindset is to reframe the wording of what you think and believe.

We all have negative beliefs that hold us back. Sometimes, they manifest themselves as negative self-talk. For example, you might say, “I’m not good enough,” or “I can’t do this.”

You can adopt a more positive mindset by reframing them:

I’m not good enough. -> I’m getting better each day.

I can’t do this -> I’m learning how to do this.

Even something like, “I hate my job,” can be reframed to, “I’m doing what I need to do now and transitioning to something better.”

The first step to reframing is to identify your negative thought patterns. Then, pay attention to the voice inside your head and what it tells you.

Other ways to discover your negative thoughts are to journal, practice mindfulness, or seek feedback from people who know you well.

2. Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

You can create an even more lasting effect by challenging your negative thought patterns and demonstrating they’re untrue.

For example, you can collect evidence that proves otherwise if you feel you’re an imposter and not good at what you do. When these negative thoughts appear, you can counteract them with this evidence. Look at results you’ve gotten before, or seek positive feedback from others.

It can also help to look at the lives of successful people. If you feel like you’re not successful, it might help to realize that no top performer was born that way. Everyone needed to improve like you’re doing now.

3. Improve Your Content Mix

You can significantly change your mindset by consuming more empowering content. Find videos, podcasts, and blogs that make you feel inspired. Use content that fires you up and gets you ready to take action.

Podcasts are a great way to feel more empowered because you can listen to them while you work, commute, or do things around the house. It’s like a voice in your ear inspiring you as you go about your day.

4. Create a Positive Morning Routine

What do you do when you first wake up in the morning? How do you spend the first few hours of the day?

The way you spend the morning sets the tone for the whole day. So creating a morning routine that makes you feel positive and energized is an excellent idea. Then, you’ll approach everything you do with more positivity.

Start by deciding what you’ll do when you first wake up. Next, choose activities that will help you feel positive, such as light exercise, meditation, a healthy breakfast, reading time, or enjoying content that inspires you.

Full disclosure: I’m still working on this one! LOL

5. Set Goals

Setting goals helps you shift your mindset by focusing on positive future outcomes. When you make goals, you create this future for yourself, choosing what you want and don’t want.

You know what you’re working toward when you have clear and specific goals. Staying motivated is more manageable when you have a bad day or experience a setback. You’ll realize that one setback doesn’t erase all your progress.

6. Visualize the Future You Want

Along with setting goals, visualization helps you focus on the future you want, which brings positivity into your life today.

Choose a time in the future and imagine your life and business in as much detail as possible. Use all your senses to visualize what it would be like. You can practice this visualization daily or whenever you need some positivity. This is a great element to add to your morning routine.

7. Express Daily Gratitude

Daily gratitude is extremely powerful in creating a positive mindset and sense of abundance. It makes you appreciate all the good you have in your life.

The best way to do this is through a gratitude journal. Sit down every day and write down 3 things you’re grateful for. In addition to positivity, your gratitude journal will make you more resilient, reduce stress, and improve your mental health.

It really works…I’m a witness!

8. Embrace a Growth Mindset

Growth mindset is a perspective that sees human beings as capable of change and growth. It differs from a fixed mindset, which says people can’t fundamentally change. Developing a growth mindset will give you a more positive way of thinking.

There are many ways to do this, but the most impactful is to reorder the way you see challenges and learning. For example, people with a growth mindset see every experience as a chance for growth. This is particularly the case with challenges, failures, and hard times. Instead, it would help if you understood that whether you succeed or fail, you’ll come through your trials knowing more than before.

9. Keep a Journal

Keeping a journal is a great way to become more positive. Reflecting on your thoughts and feelings makes you more self-aware, so you can quickly identify negative thoughts or self-talk. Then you can develop strategies to change them.

Journaling helps your mindset by allowing you to work through problems and brainstorm solutions in writing. You can then develop action plans to make the changes you need. It also provides a way to “talk” and vent your anger or frustrations.

TOTAL YES on this one!!!

10. Creating Positive Success Habits

Creating positive success habits is the best way to shift to a positive mindset. Choose a few from the above or others you may find and create a routine where these strategies become ingrained in your everyday life. With increased positivity, you’ll find it easier to get things done and keep negativity and stress at bay.

You’ve GOT THIS, my friend! Let’s walk this journey together…

Want to learn more about how you can transform your mindset into one of positivity? Head over here (remember #3!):

Kayren’s Podcast | Kayren’s YouTube Channel | Kayren’s Publications

© Copyright 2023 by Kayren J. Cathcart

“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:”

(Philippians 2:5)

It’s My Birthday – Help Me Celebrate!

I’d LOVE for you to help me celebrate my birthday this week by grabbing a book or online course to support your personal growth and development throughout this new year. It’ll be like a virtual party!

I’ve been preparing LOTS of goodies to share and my online bookstore will continue to grow at https://payhip.com/kayrencathcart – check it out!

Click this link to see all that’s included in my NEW online course curriculum (it’s SOOO good!):

3 Simple Time Management Strategies for Working Women

I’m here to inspire, motivate, and encourage you to move forward in God’s plan for your life. Happy New Year – let’s make 2023 a year like no other as we go forth boldly – obeying God, stepping out in faith, and getting organized!

Abundant blessings and grateful for another year on the planet,

Kayren

“Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day.”

(Psalm 25:5)

© Copyright 2023 by Kayren J. Cathcart

I Am Zucchini: A Tale of Flourishing

Hey friends! It’s been a full and active summer over my way, but I’ve got a FRESH new podcast episode for your listening pleasure…https://anchor.fm/kayren-cathcart/episodes/I-Am-Zucchini-A-Tale-of-Flourishing-e1m1fib

I’m sharing inspiration from my home garden on flourishing in harvest time. This uplifting 6-minute speech was given during a recent Toastmasters meeting…I hope it puts a smile on your face! Stay encouraged, Kayren 🙂

“Those that be planted in the house of the Lord shall flourish in the courts of our God.”

(Psalm 92:13)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

p.s. Drop me a comment after you listen; I wanna to hear from you…please Follow, Like, Share, Comment, and SUBSCRIBE to my Spotify podcast for notifications of new PODCAST episodes!

NEW Episode: The Convo Lab welcomes Rita Garnto

I’ve connected with another dynamic woman who knows that #SelfCareIsNOTselfish and I’m excited to share our conversation with YOU! #TheConvoLab #AllSistahsAreWelcome 

Rita Garnto with Simple Self-Care by Rita shares valuable tips and techniques for Building Up Your Stress Armor in this timely NEW episode of The Convo Lab

Check out this amazing interview on YouTube or LinkedIn and learn how to show yourself MORE LOVE and stress LESS!

BONUS: Keep scrolling to check out my nostalgic Hello Kitty nails – they’re absolutely adorbs and they make me SMILE because I count nail design time as self-care LOL…thanks again to Kourtney (on IG @huesovhazel) for decorating me with her artistic genius!

“36 Master, which is the great commandment in the law?

37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.

38 This is the first and great commandment.

39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

(Matthew 22:36-40)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

p.s. Drop me a comment after you watch; I wanna to hear from you…please Like, Share, Comment, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel for notifications of new episodes of The Convo Lab!

Thanks so much,
Kayren

Nailed It!!! 💅🏾🦋

I’m looking at this lovely butterfly all the time…so mesmerizing!
Kourtney’s nail genius on display!

After a few short months of being her client, I am certain that Kourtney KNOWS me – and this helps her deliver a prime customer service experience every time.

You KNOW your nail tech is a keeper when she:

  1. Guides you to a color combo that eases you into the neon you’ve been hesitant to try for 3 seasons but it still works in a professional corporate setting 🤓
  2. Deciphers your ambiguous ask for “blingalicious” 💎 and pulls it off without using your prime obsession: gold glitter topcoat 
  3. Understands that your indecision between fill-in vs. gel polish vs. complete soak-off (so you can ambitiously do your own nails😯 with cheap polish from the drugstore😳…which will never happen because it takes more time than it’s worth and you get more product on your skin than on your nails🥴) is pure foolishness…and lets you run with that circular reasoning until you remember that your nail appointment is a valuable investment🎯 in your self-care and mental well-being 🥳 #SelfCareIsNOTselfish
  4. Patiently waits 🤐 until you realize (on your own) that you’re aggravated because you need the fill-in and cut-down within 3 weeks instead of trying to stretch it to 4 weeks (or beyond…#Guilty)
  5. Incorporates your child’s college colors (#AggiePride💙💛), your love of stickers, AND your business logo for transition, renewal, and rebirth in one fell swoop 🦋
  6. AND you BOTH laugh and cry🤣 in the same appointment because it’s a sistah chat, venting session, and therapy all rolled into one

At least that’s how it was for me! I left her chair with a song in my heart, ready to face the world again…with super-fabulous nails!

Thank you, Kourtney!💓🤗 Follow her on IG @huesovhazel to be dazzled by her creativity and artistry…

I hope you find great service that brings you similar nail joy…or book with Kourtney if you’re in the area – just don’t take MY appointment time, PLEEEEZE!😊😉 

“…but by love serve one another.”

(Galatians 5:13b)

© Copyright 2022 by Kayren J. Cathcart

Let’s Get Down to BUSINESS! 🎯

Are you ready for MORE? Be my guest this week…

Have you grabbed your FREE ticket to Fempreneur Coach Connection Live?!

My friend @fempreneuronline is hosting an amazing Virtual Experience for fempreneurs to connect, learn, and be inspired! You KNOW how much I love sharing awesome resources, growing my business, and having fun, so I definitely don’t want you to miss this opportunity to combine all three…

It’s happening on April 13-14, 2022 and this event will cover everything you need to:

💥 increase your visibility through podcasts

💥 grow your brand fam

💥 enroll clients for your group coaching programs

You will walk away from this event ready to IMPLEMENT major improvements in your coaching business.

🎟  Grab your FREE ticket RIGHT HERE! 🎟 

Freebies GALORE! Int’l Women’s Day 3/8/2022 🎁

Join the celebration!🥳 Don’t miss this opportunity to be encouraged and inspired…

I am extremely excited to be joining forces with Tina Moore and the Crazy, Courageous Confidence Club on TUESDAY, MARCH 8, 2022 to empower women everywhere! I’ve been selected as a Featured Speaker for the IMPACT THE WORLD, GIRL Summit on TUESDAY, MARCH 8, 2022, and I don’t want you to miss my 3PM ET session: 💥MAKING AN IMPACT BY PRIORITIZING ME!💥

👉🏽 This virtual summit is absolutely FREE, but in order to receive access to the sessions from 9 AM EST UNTIL 9PM EST and get tons of FREE DIGITAL GIFTS from us (100+ speakers, y’all!), you must sign up using the website on the graphic (www.CrazyCourageousConfidence.club). Reach out to me if you have any questions – it’s gonna be EPIC!!! #TheCrazyCourageousConfidenceClub #TheLadiesOfC4 #InternationalWomensDay2022 #IWD2022

We ALL have notable women in our lives who are worthy of honor EVERY DAY. 👑 Celebrating Women’s History Month during March gives us an opportunity to consider and truly appreciate their (and our) myriad contributions and accomplishments.🙌🏽 Keep being phenomenal, sistahs!!! Blessings, Kayren💞

p.s. If you’re new to Clubhouse (like I was last month!😳), no worries!!!🤣 You can download the Clubhouse app and find me @kayrencathcart and follow me there…or just use this easy link:

✅ Find me on Clubhouse! https://www.clubhouse.com/@kayrencathcart?utm_medium=ch_profile&utm_campaign=yjuZ2HAzkBWxDyPGixXsoA-92830

What Are YOU Hungry For?😋

Pearlette & Les Brown

Pearlette's book cover

As we approach the close of our calendar year, reflection is in order. Can you say that you’re moving in the direction of your God-given purpose? If you’re ready to make 2022 more intentional and productive than 2021, watch this episode of The Convo Lab for some proven methods to get traction before January 1.

Productivity Coach and Author Pearlette Cassells is featured in a book compilation with Les Brown (one of my favorite motivational speakers): Ignite the Hunger in You: How to Develop Your Greatness and Ignite Humanity. She joins me on the last 2021 episode of The Convo Lab to help us prepare to enter 2022 with momentum and purpose…don’t miss this treat!

Tune in for encouragement and wisdom on Episode 8 of The Convo Lab with Kayren Cathcart & Pearlette Cassells:

https://tinyurl.com/TheConvoLabPearletteCassells

Drop me a comment after you watch; I wanna to hear from you…and please Like, Share, Comment, and Subscribe to my YouTube channel for notifications of new episodes!

Blessings, Kayren

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:”

(Ecclesiastes 3:1)

© Copyright 2021 by Kayren J. Cathcart